RESPECT
There must be mutual respect present at all times. even if you both disagree.
BALANCE
There has to a balance of power in the relationship.
ACCEPTANCE
Accept the other person as they are without attempting to alter them.
CHOICE
Choosing the other person and your connection consciously and actively.
TRUST
A sense of physical and emotional security and assurance.
COMMUNICATIONS
Being able to express your feelings and make requests. being able to communicate with your partner about where you are without relying on them to understand you.
EFFORT
Showing love, respect and consideration with behavior actions.
UNITY
The overall shift from “me” to “us.” Two whole people coming together to create one shared experience.
REMORSE
Being able to sincerely apologize or accept an apology without suffering unending consequences that are thrown back in their/your face
Being able to sincerely apologize or accept an apology without suffering unending consequences that are thrown back in their/your face.
EMPATHY
Being aware, present and loving of your partner’s emotions, perspective and how they feel.